Some of my frens told me be4 that it would be hard to keep in contact after parting ways like going to diff schs or having diff commitments like ns etc... last time i would have thought otherwise and told them that as long as frens have the similar thinking that they wanna carry on maintaining their relationship, they would make an effort to keep it going and meet up and update one another on their lives and thus at least still have each other on their minds and not entirely forget or neglect the friendship built up after all...

Budden i realise that i am actually quite wrong to have thought that way...it's not that i wanna stop meeting my frens (on the contrary i wan to...) but it's juz that things turn out to be wat i somehow was too naive to perhaps accept in the past...i tot that despite all our busy commitments we would still make an effort to meet up occasionally for an outing, a meal or juz a chit-chat session to tell each other what's been happening in our lives...that communicating on msn or thru sms would somehow be enuff to keep in contact and subsequently maybe even organise a meeting thru there...budden i was wrong...

Nowadays, ppl are busy with their own stuff that sometimes even getting a reply for a sms or on msn takes some time (i'm guilty of this too haha), not to mention trying to organise some outing...it's sianded when i organise an outing and den get replies tat juz succeed in making me wanna pull my hair out...and eventually when the outing is on and the turnout is low, it also doesn't make things feel any greater...tat's when i finally realise that sometimes it would juz have to be a case of asking one or two ppl out and going out together in a small grp that matters and not bothering to wait for everyone else to be free on another day which normally doesn't come till a damn long time later...

And is it really so hard for ppl to ask the opposite sex to go out with them without giving the wrong idea of any sort? Or rather, is it so hard for ppl to accept going out with the opposite sex without thinking too much into it?

Anyway, my biological sleep clock is going haywire again...slp and wake up like 3 times a day it juz sounds as though i am eating my meals...and soon certain things will not be as easy and relaxing as they are now...at least i've been thru it be4 so i'm mentally prepared juz that it's so sianzzz...

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