Having conversations with different ppl really allows me to peek into their feelings and opinions on various matters which i couldn't possibly know if i din talk to them in the first place...from wat i experienced on friday, i could say i learnt quite a great deal abt 2 different individuals who have their own outlook on life...and there was one point that struck me: the need for ppl to know how to live with others around them...
Like i always think, all relationships are maintained and strengthened thru mutual communication and understanding...many a times, we jump to conclusions and hurl false accusations at others without first grasping the truth of the whole situation, obviously resulting in misunderstandings and conflicts amongst one another...ppl may fall out with each other and harbour ill feelings towards one another when it could have been all avoided from the start...
Perhaps we should give each other a chance to explain what's going on before the "i dun friend u anymore" phrase starts infiltrating our minds...and also give other ppl a chance even after we have labelled them as "enemies" or "outcasts" and start accepting them...
Den maybe i will also stop thinking of you negatively and give myself a reason to see you in a more positive manner...
Labels: conversations, relationships