Sometimes when things dun go our way, we juz gotta accept it and look forward to life...that's the way we often say we shld act but seldom do we follow it...there will surely be a tinge of disappointment no matter how small when we realise how certain events dun go the way we expected...as the chinese saying goes, "the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment"...how apt as a description of us humans...there's nothing much we can do abt it but we still think of the what-ifs even though there's no point in doing s0...regretting certain actions of ours also wun help at all unless u can compensate for them...and in this world today, the word "sorry" just doesn't seem that effective a word when used for asking of forgiveness...
And inevitably we will look at others around us and compare...altho again we know comparing sux as u onli make urself feel worse when u pale in comparison to others...to this, i can onli offer the viewpoint that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses...some things good, some things bad...we can't be good in everything, can we? haha...sceptics will look at this and say that it's a form of consolation to tell ourselves that we ain't that bad as compared to the stronger/better/more elite others...well it's true to a certain extent budden we can't juz dismiss this viewpoint juz becos of this...rather, we shld use it as a form of motivation to build on our strengths and improve on our weaknesses...only den will we feel that our lives are progressing the way we want them to...
The way i look at my life now: it's quite gd considering moz factors =)... could be better in certain areas but it's acceptable...juz gotta wait and see for new developments to occur in the future (which i hope would materialise sooner rather than later? depends on what i'm thinking of =X)
Time waits for no one~~~ (a line from The Girl Who Leapt Through Time)